Another challenging day for my Babe. She sleeps between worlds, oblivious to the orchestrated chaos that surrounds her.
All I could do was tape some pictures of her on the wall so strangers could see her as a person and not a patient, one whose smile could light up a room.
I would like to share with you the words of my friend and neighbor, Tom Knightly, who explains things to me in a way that I can understand. Maybe they will benefit you as well.
"By looking at Florine's MRI's you can see that there are several areas of her brain that sustained injuries from her accident. The seperate areas of damage are not always caused by seperate impacts. One blow can lead to damage in several different areas of the brain. This happens due to movement of the brain within the skull. An analogy for this would be a car moving at high speed that comes to a sudden stop by hitting a wall. The car will come to a stop,
but the objects inside the car will continue to move forward until they strike something and then rebound back, possibly impacting several more times. The brain responds in the same way by striking the inside of the skull at the area of impact and then rebounding back and striking the interior of the skull in other places. In Florine's case,this explains why there are contusions in the brain in areas that show no damage on the exterior.
When you see all of the medical efforts and expertise that are being used to help Florine it is easy to forget that it is actually the human body that does all the healing. If you cut a non-living tissue (like a piece of steak) it will never heal no matter what bandages, sutures, or medications you try to employ. These medical interventions are invaluable in helping her body overcome these obstacles but in the big picture these are addressing the problem from the outside. Healing occurs from the inside, from the cellular level. As the tissues begin to heal the organs can function normally and her body can be restored to health. This is a long slow process and there are no shortcuts. The good news is that Florine's body knows how to heal itself. Our bodies can perform thousands of chemical reactions and convert the food that we eat into living tissue all while we are blissfully ignorant of the processes going on within us. Her body is able to do things that no medical expert can. Every medical miracle that you have ever heard of has been the result of the body's innate intelligence to heal itself.
Florine is a strong woman with a passion for life. She is facing a huge challenge and she has the love and support of her family and friends. She needs time. Time for her to heal."
Can't add to that.
Goodnight,
John
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6 comments:
Thank you John for the update. It was beautifully written. I think about you and Babe constantly through out the day. The first thing I do every morning is check the site for news. Thank you so much for taking the time to post an update. WE are all praying. The body is an amazing vessel for our soul and spirt. Aunt Babe has a spirit that could light up a world. Stay strong and we love you both.
Christel
John,
You and Florine are in my prayers. You are so right. She is an amazing woman and she lights up any room she walks into. She has a zest for life unlike any I have ever seen before. If anyone is up for the challenges that lay ahead, it is Florine. She has you by her side and she will fight her way through this. Please give her a kiss for me. I love you both. Jodie
John,
We heard about Florine's accident from Elaina and Yudi. You may not remember us, but we spent a lovely evening at your home when Elaina and Yudi were visiting a year or so ago. You were just leaving for Thailand the next morning. And I worked for years with Florine at the County Office.
We are sending good wishes and prayers. Your spirit is strong, and I know hers is as well. May you see progress soon.
Sincerely,
Diane and Don Yerkes
This is such a great idea. Thank you John for the updates. It is a great way to keep up to date and adjust prayers accordingly. I worked with Florine for many years at the County office: Toastmasters, Decathlon, and many other projects. She is a delight and I hope and pray for her recovery. This last post certainly puts things into perspective. Good to know that this will be a journey not just a quick sprint. I know how much she loves you, she always spoke of you with a twinkle in her eye. All the best to you and Florine. Here's to good medicine, good prayers, and good healing.
Shauna Stark
We truly appreciate the updates John. We understand that you are dealing with an abundance of information from the medical staff about Babe. You have a unique way of reporting day to day happenings. You are both in our prayers. Be strong and God Bless! Love, John and Diane Belanger
Dear John:
I met you a long time ago when I was a permanent person at SDCOE. I've been temping 11 years - and I am praying for Florine. I see her recovered and greeting me with her lovely smile. Keep up the sensitive, beautiful writing. I journal every evening and know the comfort it gives.
My best,
Molly Barg
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